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What causes us to shut down?


Slowing down to see what's there vs. labeling things as wrong, rejecting parts of ourselves or shutting ourselves down.
What's going on with me at times when I am triggered and not able to hold space for my child(ren)?
 
If I have more clarity about what's happening inside me, I have more sensitivity to what may be happening for another and am able to engage from that softer place.




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Reacting vs. responding skillfully or responding as we would choose
Reacting vs. responding as we would choose




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What's going on with me at times when I am triggered and not able to hold space for my child(ren)?
What causes me to shut down?


If I have more clarity about what's happening inside me, I have more sensitivity to what may be happening for another and am able to engage from that softer place.
Slowing down to see what's there vs. labeling things as wrong, rejecting parts of ourselves or shutting ourselves down.

Revision as of 06:50, 14 April 2022

4/14/22


What's going on with me at times when I am triggered and not able to hold space for my child(ren)?

If I have more clarity about what's happening inside me, I have more sensitivity to what may be happening for another and am able to engage from that softer place.


"Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." -Viktor Frankl


Reacting vs. responding as we would choose


What drives our reactions?

habits, conditioning, trauma, fear


What causes me to shut down?

Slowing down to see what's there vs. labeling things as wrong, rejecting parts of ourselves or shutting ourselves down.